Time to talk about training splits 🌈 Outlifting Ep 18
Ep. 18

Time to talk about training splits 🌈 Outlifting Ep 18

Episode description

Welcome to Episode 18 of The Outlifting Lounge, a weekly show for gay, bi, and trans guys. Hosted by Alan and Derec, we chat all things LGBTQIA+, pop culture, news, and fitness.

This week we’ll break down the jargon of training splits, talk about the time that Jimbo the Drag Clown threw vegan bologna at us, and discuss some important LGBT news from the past week.

Chapters:

00:00:00 - Welcome to Episode 18

00:01:37 - Baloney!

00:04:05 - LGBTQIA+ News

00:08:03 - Fitness: What is a Training Split?

00:09:12 - Full Body

00:12:08 - Upper/Lower

00:14:30 - PPL

00:17:41 - The Bro Split

00:19:33 - 3-2-1


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0:00

Hello and welcome to episode

0:01

18 of The Outlifting Lounge.

0:03

This is the show all about

0:05

pride, fitness, and everything in between.

0:07

In today's show we are going to

0:09

be talking about Alan's shiny new toy.

0:12

Careful now.

0:14

We'll be covering a couple of LGBT news stories from

0:17

the past week, and in the fitness section of the

0:20

show, we will be talking about training splits.

0:23

So if you've ever wondered what a training

0:26

split is, what the best training split is,

0:28

we've got the answers for you.

0:29

Let's go.

0:35

I already know the answer to this question,

0:36

but how has your week been, Alan?

0:39

My week's been pretty good.

0:40

Why has your week been pretty good?

0:42

'Cause I got a new water bottle!

0:44

For those listening to the audio version, Alan

0:46

is holding up his water bottle as if

0:48

he is a TikTok maw, who's trying to

0:51

punt stuff on TikTok shop right now.

0:53

I was actually going to say QVC, but

0:55

yeah, let's go TikTok for the kids.

0:57

I just hit your laptop there, sorry.

0:59

Yeah, that costs considerably more,

1:01

so let's not do that.

1:02

Do you know what?

1:03

It's the simple pleasures in life.

1:04

I am so excited.

1:05

How many times have I told

1:06

you that my water's still cold?

1:09

It's an insulated bottle, okay, I get it.

1:12

I'm very happy for you.

1:14

Twelve hours of insulation?

1:15

Little amuses the innocent, and you have been

1:18

very amused by your new water bottle.

1:20

I'm telling you, it's just simple pleasures in life

1:22

from now on, and I am very happy.

1:24

And you are simple, and you're a pleasure, so

1:27

I guess that makes you my simple pleasure.

1:32

There's an advertising slogo.

1:33

Slogo?

1:34

Slogo, new word!

1:37

It's like when they make up

1:38

words in Drag Race, like, eloguent.

1:42

And what was it?

1:43

Lazéda?

1:44

Flazéda!

1:50

Yeah.

1:51

So yeah, what's that?

1:52

Slogo?

1:52

Slogo.

1:53

Oh, and speaking of Drag Race, my week's been

1:56

good because another Drag Race has been announced.

1:58

Is there a week where we

2:00

never speak about Drag Race?

2:01

No.

2:02

I thought this was going to be the

2:03

week until Canada All Stars was announced.

2:05

So let me ask something.

2:08

Is there ever a week that Drag Race isn't on?

2:12

No! Exactly! That's my point!

2:13

I'm going to keep talking about it

2:15

while RuPaul still is sucking the life

2:18

out of everybody around her.

2:21

No. I'm going to keep talking about

2:22

it because I love it.

2:24

And you love it as well.

2:25

You just pretend not to.

2:27

I enjoy it.

2:28

So Drag Race Canada All Stars.

2:32

I had to think there.

2:33

That's a lot.

2:34

There's just so many different

2:34

franchises with different names.

2:36

I know!

2:37

So Drag Race Canada All Stars has

2:38

been announced for later this year.

2:40

I'm happy about that.

2:41

And what makes it even better is, Brooke

2:44

is the host, but we have got Jimbo

2:46

and Priyanka as the judges for the season.

2:48

And we love Jimbo.

2:49

We went to see them in Glasgow when they performed

2:53

and it was one of the best drag shows ever.

2:55

So obviously Jimbo does that number that they

2:58

did in UK vs the World where they

3:00

throw the bologna out to the judges.

3:04

Baloney!

3:05

Baloney!

3:06

But they do that in the, like when they tour.

3:09

So we went to see them in Glasgow, full

3:11

kit, the big white outfit, weird as anything, and

3:15

asked, did anybody not want bologna thrown at them?

3:18

And we were just about to put up our

3:20

hands because we didn't want, I was about to

3:22

say, we didn't want meat thrown at us.

3:24

And that's unusual for us.

3:26

We do in some context.

3:28

Not meat meat though.

3:30

So we were about to say no and

3:31

we were a bit timid about it.

3:33

And this girl in front of us, her hands shot up.

3:36

And she said, "I'm vegan" and I

3:38

brought, she produced it from her bag.

3:41

She had Quorn slices.

3:44

So she specifically asked for Jimbo

3:46

to throw those at her.

3:47

It was very good.

3:48

Yeah, that was a good night.

3:49

Yeah, it was good.

3:51

So yeah, very excited about that.

3:53

So I'll tell you what, I'll make you a deal.

3:55

What about we don't talk anymore about Drag

3:57

Race just now and we head straight into

3:59

the news section of the show.

4:01

Hallelujah.

4:02

Let's do it.

4:05

So we picked out a few items of news.

4:09

And the first one we just want to touch on.

4:10

It was something we talked about last week.

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And this is a bit of a follow on.

4:15

It's infuriating.

4:15

The German referee that we spoke about last

4:18

week, who proposed to his partner at the

4:21

football match, was attacked at his home.

4:24

And unfortunately, it has happened again.

4:26

And the most infuriating thing about it is

4:29

that actually the police were watching his house.

4:32

He was under police protection.

4:34

And it took them 30 minutes to

4:36

get there after the second attack.

4:38

So obviously, they messed up quite

4:40

significantly on the first attack.

4:41

He phoned them.

4:42

They said nothing to worry about.

4:44

And 20 minutes later, guys beat

4:46

him up in his own garden.

4:48

And then this happens when the police were meant

4:51

to have a fast response marker on his property.

4:54

And it's just the rise of the far right in

4:56

Germany is coming out in these types of incidents.

4:59

And unfortunately, it's happening.

5:01

The far right rise, unfortunately,

5:03

is happening all over Europe.

5:05

So yeah, obviously, we're coming up

5:06

to Pride season as well.

5:08

And what I would just hammer home to anybody that's

5:11

tuning into the show is, remember what Pride is.

5:14

Pride is becoming more and more important

5:17

in the current climate and the current

5:20

context, wherever we are in the world.

5:21

So make sure you keep that in mind.

5:23

Go out, be visible, be seen, be loud,

5:26

and make your voice heard at Pride.

5:28

If you want a little reminder of what

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Pride is about, watch the film Pride.

5:32

That's all I'm going to say.

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This is a very good film.

5:34

You'll shed a tear.

5:35

Yes.

5:36

So on a better note, the second news

5:39

story that we wanted to touch on comes

5:42

from the European Parliament this week.

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So I'm going to get this right.

5:45

I'm going to read it out.

5:46

The resolution was regarding the EU's priorities

5:49

ahead of the 70th session of the

5:52

UN Commission on the Status of Women.

5:54

So the really good thing about this resolution

5:57

is, and there were lots of parts of

5:58

this, but there was a line in that

6:00

that basically reaffirms that trans women are women

6:04

and for the full recognition of trans

6:07

women, and notes that their inclusion is

6:10

essential for the effectiveness of any gender

6:12

equality and anti-violence policy that's passed.

6:14

So really, really super positive, and

6:16

again, Europe leading the way here.

6:19

Yeah, it's amazing news for the trans community when there's

6:22

so much going on in the world, and it's so

6:24

good to get some positive news about it.

6:26

Yeah, and I mean, this resolution, like

6:28

there was lots of stuff covered.

6:30

The headlines predictably just focused on the

6:33

fact that trans women are included

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as they should be.

6:36

But, I mean, the resolution, really,

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really lengthy, but it covers so

6:40

many important things like gender-based violence

6:43

and femicide, gender stereotypes, misogyny and

6:46

sexism, sexual and reproductive health and

6:48

rights, sexual violence and gender equality.

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I mean, there's so, so, so much to this.

6:53

But the fact that the resolution is inclusive

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is just so important, it really is.

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And that, I mean, there's just been

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a lot of bad news recently.

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So that was a little, again,

7:05

from Europe, more good news.

7:07

Yes, we love that.

7:08

And there was an item in the

7:09

resolution which really stood out for us,

7:12

which said, it “commits the EU to

7:14

a foreign development and security policy which

7:18

is inclusive and intersectional prioritising the needs

7:21

of women and LGBTQIA+ human rights defenders."

7:26

Yeah.

7:27

High five that.

7:27

High five that indeed.

7:29

Because especially, we see what's happening in the USA,

7:32

we see what's happening in the direction of travel

7:34

in the UK, especially with some of the stuff

7:36

that Reform have been saying this week.

7:39

So, yeah, the EU is once

7:41

again a big shining beacon.

7:43

And obviously, political winds can change, but

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for the moment, we're very, very fortunate

7:48

to have the European Parliament, the EU,

7:51

the Commission, all of that, you know,

7:52

supporting us and defending human rights.

7:54

Yeah.

7:56

So, are we done with the news section then?

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Yeah, let's move on to the fitness section.

8:03

Welcome to the fitness section of the show.

8:05

The topic this week is one

8:07

that Alan's quite passionate about.

8:09

He wanted to include this and we do get

8:12

quite a lot of questions in about this.

8:14

So, it's all about training splits and that is

8:17

essentially how you schedule your workouts and what order

8:21

you do them and how often you do them.

8:24

A lot of people, especially if people are

8:26

new, they get a bit confused by this

8:28

because it's just yet more terminology.

8:30

So, we're going to cover some of the

8:32

common training splits, what the advantages, disadvantages are,

8:36

and why you might want to do them.

8:39

So, Alan, do you want to kick us

8:40

off with just a bit about training splits?

8:43

Yes.

8:44

So, we get asked this question quite a lot and

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it is what is the best training split for me?

8:49

What is the best workout schedule for me?

8:52

And the answer will always be it depends.

8:55

It depends on what you can do, what

8:57

your schedule is, what you can stick to.

9:00

So, with a lot of things in

9:02

fitness, I think the best answer is

9:04

it depends because everybody is individual.

9:07

So, we are going to go over

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the main ones that most people do.

9:12

So, we are going to start off with full body.

9:14

So, this one is a pretty good one to

9:16

start off with because I think full body is

9:18

quite good for beginners, actually, who maybe don't want

9:23

to have to think too much about the terminology

9:26

of training splits or think about those while they

9:27

are learning about all the other stuff.

9:29

Yeah, exactly.

9:31

And the reason we're going to speak about these

9:32

certain splits is it means that you're going to

9:35

be hitting the muscle groups multiple times a week,

9:38

which is ideally what you want to do.

9:41

And last week's episode, we touched on the bro

9:44

split a little bit in the fitness section where

9:46

you're working one muscle group each day.

9:49

But these splits that we're going to talk about

9:51

are going to be more beneficial if you're a

9:53

beginner, intermediate or advanced because you're going to

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hit the muscle groups multiple times a week.

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So full body does exactly what it says on the tin.

10:03

You're going to hit multiple muscle groups throughout the week.

10:06

So think in one session you're going

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to do legs, you're going to do

10:09

chest, back, biceps, triceps, shoulders.

10:14

You might even want to throw in a little

10:16

bit of core, like ab work there as well.

10:19

Yeah, totally.

10:20

I mean, that's what quite drew me to Bodypump

10:24

classes when I first started going to the gym.

10:27

I like going in and getting a full body workout.

10:31

There's just something about that.

10:33

There's a sense of accomplishment as well to it.

10:36

Moving on in time, you probably don't want

10:40

to stick to just doing full body workouts

10:42

every time you go to the gym.

10:43

You do want to like narrow in a

10:45

little bit and do some of the other

10:46

kind of training that we're talking about.

10:48

But for a beginner, super to do

10:51

because it just keeps it quite simple.

10:53

And also as well, if you don't have a lot of

10:57

time in the sense of you can't make it to the

10:59

gym, four, five, six times a week, and you can only

11:03

maybe commit to two to three sessions, a full body is

11:07

quite good for that because you can go in and do

11:09

two or three a week and that's it, essentially.

11:12

Exactly, it's great for that.

11:14

And we might actually programme this for

11:17

some clients who have a few busy

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weeks coming up in their schedule.

11:21

They might be doing a different split, but what

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we do is pivot to three full bodies.

11:26

I know what you're just

11:26

about to say...

11:27

Pivot! Pivot.

11:29

We might pivot to three full bodies because that's

11:32

all they can do for maybe two or three

11:33

weeks, but it means that they're still getting that

11:36

full approach to their training over that time.

11:39

Yeah.

11:39

Beginners normally know when it is time to

11:41

move on from the full body when it

11:43

is maybe just getting a bit too much.

11:46

Maybe there's other stuff that

11:47

they want to start doing.

11:49

They maybe want to start

11:50

working on specific parts.

11:52

Maybe they feel that their calves aren't developed enough,

11:54

so they need to start putting that in.

11:55

And before you know it, they can maybe spend two

11:57

hours in the gym, which is a big time commitment

12:01

and also can be quite draining on energy levels.

12:04

So that's perhaps time to know when to move on.

12:07

Yeah.

12:08

So the next one we would recommend going

12:10

to is an upper lower split.

12:12

And we would do that obviously over four days.

12:15

You'd maybe do upper, lower,

12:17

have a rest day, upper, lower.

12:19

And then obviously the rest of the week

12:20

are either cardio days or rest days.

12:23

And again, what it says on the tin.

12:24

So upper body, lower body.

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Now, a common misconception is that people think that

12:29

they need to do the same upper twice a

12:32

week and the same lower workout twice a week.

12:33

But that's not the case.

12:36

What you can do is slightly different exercises

12:38

in each to perhaps target slightly different parts

12:41

of the muscle in a muscle group.

12:44

So, again, this is where being a bit

12:47

smarter about your training split can be advantageous.

12:50

Yeah, it's good to hit different parts of the

12:51

muscle, but obviously to keep interest there as well.

12:55

If you're going in and doing the

12:56

same workout essentially twice a week, you're

12:59

probably going to get bored with it.

13:01

So, it's really good to have a bit of

13:02

variety in there to keep your interest, but also

13:06

to make sure that you're progressing and hitting the

13:07

muscles the way you want to.

13:09

So again, it's quite good if you don't really want

13:12

to be in the gym six days a week.

13:14

This is quite good because it's a

13:15

four-day commitment, which I think for most

13:17

people is pretty reasonable, eh?

13:19

Yeah, I would say so.

13:20

And the good thing is, as well, if you're

13:22

hitting two lower sessions over the week, you can

13:24

prioritise maybe you want to work on your glutes

13:27

a little bit more, so you can maybe make

13:29

one of those a little bit glute heavy.

13:31

Yeah, and let's face it, a thing that

13:32

a lot of gay guys want to work

13:34

on, everybody wants that dump truck ass.

13:36

Cake, cake, cake, cake, cake, cake, cake.

13:39

Everybody wants the cake, and yeah.

13:42

So once you get a little bit more

13:43

confident in the gym, you can move on.

13:45

And it's not just the upper lower

13:47

split where you can do that as well.

13:48

Some of the other splits that we're going to talk

13:50

about are quite good and allow you to maybe focus

13:52

on certain areas that you want to work on.

13:54

Yeah, I will say though, if you're someone who

13:57

doesn't enjoy a leg/lower day, maybe having two of

14:00

those a week is a bit like, "Ugh!"

14:02

Because I hate doing legs.

14:05

And the only reason I hate doing them is

14:06

because I don't feel I'm that strong in them.

14:08

You know, it's the path of least resistance as

14:10

humans, we don't enjoy doing something we don't like.

14:13

So again, having that two day split, although

14:16

you might not enjoy legs, you can put

14:18

a bit of variety into it then.

14:20

And I would always recommend to do some

14:22

ab work during a lower day as well.

14:24

If you're looking for a split that is maybe

14:26

a little less leg heavy, you could go for

14:30

a PPL, which stands for push/pull lower.

14:33

Yes, really, really good split.

14:35

I would say that this

14:36

is more of an intermediate/advanced

14:38

level for this kind of training.

14:41

So push would be chest, shoulders, triceps.

14:45

Pull would generally be back and bis.

14:48

And then lower is exactly it.

14:50

Lower/legs sometimes it's called as well.

14:53

So you could do this maybe three times a week.

14:55

Push/pull/legs.

14:57

Or you could go into push/pull/legs, upper/lower.

15:01

You could actually add those two in if you're

15:03

going to do more of a five day split.

15:06

And again, that just means that you're going to

15:08

get the muscle groups worked multiple times a week.

15:11

Very good advice.

15:12

Thank you very much.

15:13

So what I would recommend is if you're doing

15:14

a push/pull/legs/upper/lower, you could maybe do push/pull/legs

15:19

as three days, and then have a rest

15:21

day, and then do the other two.

15:24

Ideally for any of these splits, you

15:26

don't want to be working the same

15:27

muscle groups on consecutive days.

15:29

So think about that when you're planning

15:31

it into your schedule as well.

15:33

And I mean it is good.

15:35

Doing this is maybe just three days a week isn't

15:37

going to be enough, because you're really only going to

15:39

hit each muscle group once in the week.

15:42

So I think a lot of people who would

15:45

do PPL would do it six days a week.

15:49

And it's good because if you're doing push, you're not

15:52

going to do it again for another three days, and

15:54

then you get one rest day a week.

15:56

Big commitment though, six days a week in the gym,

15:58

which not everybody can do, so it makes it a

16:00

little bit more of an advanced split to do if

16:03

you're doing it six days a week.

16:05

You could also do it as four days over

16:07

the week as well, and it rolls over, so

16:10

you could do push, pull, legs, push, then into

16:13

the next week, legs, push, pull, legs.

16:16

So it could work on a four day split as

16:18

well, but it depends on what your goal is, and

16:22

obviously how long you can work out for, how many

16:24

days you can work out for, but it is an

16:26

option, but just know that if you are doing that,

16:30

it might just take a bit longer for you to

16:31

see the results that you want to see.

16:33

Yeah.

16:34

And again, I mean, this is quite a lot

16:36

of information being thrown at people, but hopefully this

16:41

exemplifies the fact that there are no hard and

16:43

fast rules you can play about with things.

16:45

What I would say as well is you could do

16:48

a push-pull split with no leg day, and then you

16:51

incorporate the legs into the push and the pull workouts.

16:55

So for instance, you could do squats on your push

16:57

day, you could do deadlifts on your pull day.

17:00

Yeah, that's a really good way of doing it.

17:02

Just a caveat to that is that the workouts

17:04

will probably be a little bit longer, which is

17:06

fine if you've got time for it, but an

17:08

advantage of it is that you don't have that

17:11

dreaded leg slash lower day that's coming up.

17:13

So yeah, that's a really good point.

17:15

Yeah, and then you can do four

17:17

days a week in the gym.

17:18

So slightly longer sessions, but you're only

17:20

there for a four-day commitment, for instance,

17:22

and if that suits your schedule, brilliant.

17:25

Yeah, I was doing push-pull there for a

17:27

little while when I was waiting on my

17:29

knee recovering, and I've just started to introduce

17:31

legs a wee bit, unfortunately.

17:34

But yeah, no, it's nice to

17:35

get back into that split again.

17:38

Any other splits that you

17:39

want to talk about today?

17:41

So obviously we talked about the bro split

17:43

last week, and essentially it's working, say, chest

17:47

on a Monday, back on a Tuesday, legs

17:50

on a Wednesday, shoulders on a Thursday, so

17:52

it's a muscle group per day.

17:54

I am not the biggest fan of it.

17:56

I think it's very old school.

17:58

A lot of people like doing it, but again,

18:01

if you're new to training, you might think that's

18:06

the best way to do it, because you're giving

18:08

a really good workout to one muscle group, but

18:10

it's really, really taxing to do that.

18:12

And also, disadvantages, if you miss a day for

18:15

whatever reason, you might not be doing that day

18:18

again until the next week, so you're already getting

18:20

a lot of time in between those sessions.

18:22

I personally think the only way the bro split

18:24

works is if you do more than one muscle

18:27

group per session, and then that means you're hitting

18:30

each muscle group twice a week at least.

18:32

So, I think people who want to get

18:35

results will maybe do two to three muscle

18:38

groups per session, and then they choose which

18:40

ones they want to do, based on what

18:43

their preference is and what works well together.

18:46

So yeah, the bro split of just

18:48

doing one muscle group once each week,

18:50

yeah, you're absolutely right, it's not great.

18:52

Yeah.

18:53

And I will say as well, there's a

18:54

huge caveat to all of this, in terms of

18:57

these are really good splits to do,

18:59

depending on your circumstance and your schedule.

19:01

But remember, depending on what your goal is,

19:04

fat loss, muscle building, even maintaining, that will

19:08

then dictate how the workout is actually structured,

19:11

in terms of sets that you're doing, reps

19:14

that you're doing, rest time.

19:16

And remember, nutrition is a huge,

19:18

huge part of it, as well.

19:20

So again, depending on what your goal is,

19:22

you need to make sure that your nutrition

19:23

is set up well with your training.

19:26

So that's just something to think of.

19:28

There's no one split that's going to

19:30

be the best one for your goal.

19:32

Absolutely.

19:33

There was one, there's one I actually

19:35

want to talk about, because it was

19:36

quite a trendy one last year.

19:39

I think it got quite a lot of circulation on

19:41

the likes of TikTok, and that's the 3-2-1 split.

19:44

So it's three days of muscle training, two

19:47

days of Pilates, and one day of cardio.

19:49

I haven't heard of this.

19:50

Yeah, so I think it was more popular with women

19:53

in particular, but I think there's a lot to be

19:56

said for that, because that holistic approach to training, making

20:00

sure that you're getting good core work in there as

20:02

well, and you're focusing on that.

20:04

I mean, we really found that when we lived

20:06

in Glasgow, because we were teaching Les Mills Core

20:10

classes, we were teaching Bodybalance classes, there was

20:12

quite a lot of isolated core work that we

20:15

were doing, and it was quite holistic.

20:18

It targeted all of the core muscles in

20:20

the back body and the front body, and

20:22

I massively felt the benefit of doing that.

20:26

And I think we've spoken about that.

20:27

We're going to pick that up and try

20:28

to do more isolated core work now.

20:31

But, yeah, I think there's definitely something to be

20:34

said for that as well, because if you are

20:36

the kind of person that likes variety, there is

20:40

no point in forcing yourself to do a split

20:43

if it drains the life out of you.

20:45

If you feel that you're just doing it because

20:47

you need to do it, or you have to

20:49

do it, or that it's the right thing to do,

20:52

that's not sustainable long term.

20:55

So find something that works for you.

20:56

If that means you find a class in a gym

20:59

that you like to do one or two days a

21:01

week, you can work that around your split.

21:04

So it's all about finding what works for

21:07

you, what keeps you motivated, and what keeps

21:09

you wanting to go back to the gym.

21:11

Yeah, I was going to say that, obviously we

21:13

haven't really touched on cardio that much, so if

21:16

you're someone that likes to go out running, for

21:17

example, but you're thinking, "Oh, how am I going

21:20

to fit all this in?"

21:21

Pick the split that works for your schedule.

21:24

So if you're out running three days a

21:25

week, I would probably say three full bodies

21:28

is going to be perfect for you.

21:30

Don't think that you need to be

21:31

doing push/pull/legs/upper/lower, as

21:34

well as running three days a week.

21:35

You're going to be absolutely exhausted, and you're

21:38

probably going to end up injured as well.

21:40

So, yeah, pick the thing that's going to

21:43

work for you, introduce all the elements that

21:45

you enjoy, and then the chances are you're

21:48

going to stick to it even more.

21:50

What I will say is, trends...

21:54

The ticky-tock, whatever it is you're getting this

21:56

information from, don't think that that is,

21:59

inverted commas, the best thing to do.

22:01

The best thing to do is the thing that you're

22:03

going to enjoy and that you're going to stick to.

22:05

The best thing about social media as well,

22:07

whether it be TikTok or Instagram or whatever,

22:10

there's so much conflicting advice out there.

22:12

You know, if you want, and again,

22:14

it's the hooks, it's the hooks.

22:16

So if you want a big chest, if you

22:18

want this, this is what you need to do.

22:20

And I get it because these creators want to hook

22:25

you in, they want to get this, but they're just,

22:28

a lot of the time, they're just saying this stuff

22:30

to try to get clicks and views and likes.

22:36

Realistically, it depends from person to person.

22:39

What your preferences are, what your abilities are,

22:41

where you're at on your journey.

22:44

How much time you've got, there's a lot to it.

22:46

So if you are tuning into this and

22:49

you do feel confused by what you've seen

22:51

online and all of this conflicting information, and

22:53

you don't really know, feel free to get

22:55

in touch with us, as we always say.

22:57

I mean, you can drop

22:58

an email, podcast@outlift.ing

23:02

You can send us a message

23:03

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23:07

and we will be more than happy

23:08

to give little pointers and advice.

23:10

And answer some of these

23:11

questions that you might have.

23:13

Absolutely.

23:14

Like I said at the start

23:15

of this section, it depends.

23:17

If you're not getting that answer from someone,

23:19

they're not giving you the true answer.

23:22

I've always, always believed that.

23:23

And I feel that we try and cut through

23:25

a lot of the BS that's out there in

23:27

terms of what's right and what's wrong.

23:30

Nothing is right and nothing is wrong

23:32

when it comes to this approach.

23:34

The answer is, it depends.

23:37

So if you're not getting that

23:38

answer, look for that answer.

23:40

And like you said, like drop a message.

23:41

We love speaking to people, hearing

23:43

about their journeys, where they are.

23:45

And, you know, it's not even about getting

23:48

in touch with us for a sales call.

23:49

It's about getting in touch with us so that we

23:51

can just help you and give you some information.

23:53

Absolutely.

23:54

We're here to help.

23:54

That's what we do.

23:56

Shall we wrap up the show?

23:58

I think we've talked about splits enough.

23:59

Let's do it.

24:00

Unless you want to do the splits.

24:02

Absolutely not.

24:03

Unless you want to take me to the hospital.

24:05

No. Let's wrap it up then.

24:09

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24:11

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